Good relationships need both talking and doing.

I’m glad you are here.

You've listened and are finally answering to the voice inside of you that says, there is more to life and more to love. You are ready for deep, abiding romantic love, for the "fullness and glory of all knowing" (Rainer Maria Rilke), earned and bestowed only to those who really want it. You're ready and eager to do the work, in earnest, and ready to change your outlook on what it means to do this work. You're willing to redirect your attention from seeing it as drudgery, another thing to do, or a quick way to appease your partner, and choose to embrace it as a noble undertaking to know love in a way only few know.

As a seasoned couple’s therapist and romance coach, I have worked with hundreds of couples over the years wanting to get along, feel closer to each other, communicate better. Help with "communication," in fact, is nearly always the reason why couples reach out, or more accurately, to get help talking things out. And yes, verbal communication is important. But communication skills alone, as research has shown, will not save or improve your relationship.

What keeps your attachment secure and your attraction to each other alive is the depth of your romantic connection.

The 21 Power Screws of Romance

I'm here to help you get organized and start building romantic wealth. Together, we'll unscrew patterns that have gotten you into a rut, throw out the ones that are not working, add new configurations, and screw everything back together.

And yes, better communication will be an important part of this assembly.

The 21 Power Screws of Romance are the must-have nuts and bolts for passionate, lasting love. They are your tool kit if you want to supercharge (or rekindle) magic and eroticism in your long-term relationship and don't want messes (emotional or otherwise) to get in the way of putting each other on the pedestal. They're also a great option if you are just starting out and want to establish time-tested patterns for securely attached, life long mutual love and attraction.

Crafted and assembled as the result of my professional work with couples and the co-created real-life romance between me and my lover, a man of mythical proportions, the 21 Power Screws are adapted to the challenges of 21st century couples and come in sets of 7 at three different levels:

Renaissance Lovers

Magnetic Lovers

Legendary Lovers