Good relationships need both talking and doing.

More flirting, hugging, playing, striving, giving, risking, courting, sex and spontaneity. More romance.

It's when romance is missing, verbal communication becomes the focus. But no amount of talking is going to make a difference unless you have romantic wealth.

I’m glad you are here.

You have been talking. A lot, for years. You've maybe even seen a therapist together, and things got better, for a while. But you're back where you started, feeling disconnected and stuck. As a couples therapist and romance coach, I've seen this pattern hundreds of times. Couples call to get help with communication; and help with communication they get. They learn about each other's love languages, attachment style and emotional triggers. They take risks being honest and vulnerable with each other and practice skills to repair after conflict. But sooner or later, they run out of steam and either resign or start over.

If you don't want to be that couple, you have to keep walking the talk.
This can be arduous (to say the least) if you don't have a cushion of romantic wealth.

The 21 Power Screws of Romance

I'm here to help you get organized and start building romantic wealth. Together, we'll unscrew patterns that have gotten you into a rut (communication and otherwise), throw out the ones that are not working, add new configurations, and put everything back together and
better than before.

The 21 Power Screws of Romance are your nuts and bolts for passionate, lasting love. They are your tool kit if you want to rekindle or supercharge magic and eroticism in your long-term relationship and don't want messes (emotional or otherwise) get in the way of putting each other on the pedestal. They're also a great option if you are just starting out and want to establish time-tested patterns for securely attached, life long mutual love and attraction.

Crafted and assembled as the result of my professional work with couples and the co-created real-life romance between me and my lover, a man of mythical proportions, the 21 Power Screws are adapted to the challenges of 21st century couples and come in sets of 7 at three different levels:

Renaissance Lovers
Magnetic Lovers
Numinous Lovers

Tina Lilly, MS, LPC

makeitlast@romanceunscrewed.com

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