
Good relationships need more doing than talking.
More flirting, hugging, playing, striving, giving, risking, courting, sex and spontaneity. More romance.
It's when romance is missing, verbal communication becomes the focus. But no amount of talking is going to make a difference unless you have romantic wealth.


I’m glad you are here.
You've listened and are finally answering to the voice inside of you that says, there is more to life and more to love. You are ready for deep, abiding romantic love, for the "fullness and glory of all knowing" (Rainer Maria Rilke), earned and bestowed only to those who really want it. You're ready and eager to do the work, in earnest, and ready to change your outlook on what it means to do this work. You're willing to stop looking at it as drudgery, another thing to do, or a quick way to appease your partner, and choose to see it as a noble undertaking to know love in a way only few know.
As a seasoned couple’s therapist and romance coach, I have worked with hundreds of couples over the years wanting to get along, feel closer to each other, communicate better. Help with "communication," in fact, is nearly always the reason why couples reach out, or more accurately, to get help talking things out. And yes, verbal communication is important.
But it's not the only form of communication and not all there is.
The 21 Power Screws of Romance
I'm here to help you get organized and start building romantic wealth. Together, we'll unscrew patterns that have gotten you into a rut, throw out the ones that are not working, and put everything back together.
The 21 Power Screws of Romance are the must-have nuts and bolts for passionate, lasting love. They are your tool kit if you want to rekindle magic and eroticism in your long-term relationship, or if you are just starting out and want to establish time-tested patterns for life long mutual attraction.
Crafted and assembled as the result of my professional work with couples and the co-created real-life romance between me and my lover, a man of mythical proportions, the 21 Power Screws are adapted to the challenges of 21st century couples and come in sets of 7 at three different levels.
Renaissance Lovers
Magnetic Lovers
Legendary Lovers
Tina Lilly, MS, LPC
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